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When the World You Were Raised to Live In No Longer Exists

I remember my first corporate job — the lanyard, the nods, the promise of stability. But within months, the excitement faded. The work that was meant to give life meaning felt hollow, a rigged game turning hope into profit. What I once called burnout, I now see as mourning: a quiet grief for the world we were promised, and the realization that perhaps we were never meant to win.

Essays

Charlotte

Nov 15, 20256 min read

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The Romantic Recession

Each year, women flock to NYC chasing a montage dream, but 2025 brings a romantic recession. Men outsource effort, dating feels like a bad investment, and women hedge emotional capital. Some opt out, some keep trying, but all are reassessing the cost of connection. In a world of ghosting and misfires, intimacy with The Modern Man feels risky—and women are choosing to invest in what actually pays dividends.

Charlotte

Nov 4, 20255 min read